Adolescent love requires controlling sexual desires and not indulging in sexual unemployment

Young men and women turn from friends to lovers, especially after entering the charming, sweet, and happy stage of love. Young people often forget that everything around them seems to have disappeared, and only the passion for love and emotional intoxication exist. When cuddling up with a beloved girl, the relationship is crowded, the emotions are tense, and the meaning is continuous, young people are prone to sexual impulses.

Sexual impulse is an internal force that leans towards the opposite sex target and is a normal sexual psychological phenomenon. After entering puberty, males continuously secrete sex hormones and undergo mutations in various physiological functions, leading to rapid maturation of the reproductive organs and their functions. During the period of passionate love, the emotional, emotional, memory, imagination, and other psychological activities related to sex are very active. The bright eyes and bright teeth of a girl, her slender figure, and fragrant scent, in short, the stimuli that a girl brings to young people's vision, taste, hearing, touch, and smell are all important factors that trigger their sexual impulses.

If emotions are compared to oars, then reason is the rudder. Only with the tacit cooperation of the two can the ship of love reach the other shore of happiness. The young man before marriage may have encountered this kind of test of mastery. The waves caused by sexual impulses confuse young people, making them powerless and even stranding their ship's hegemony. Only young people with strong willpower can calm the waves and sail far.

So, how should young people adjust their sexual impulses in a passionate relationship?

Firstly, it is necessary to eliminate the mystery of sex. Due to historical reasons, Chinese people talk about the color changes of sex, and the ideas of sex enthusiasts and licentiousness are deeply rooted in some people's minds. Therefore, young people should read books introducing sexual knowledge, improve their ability to suppress sexual impulses, and reduce their sense of mystery about sex.

Secondly, young men should strengthen their willpower training. When sexual desire arises, corresponding methods should be used to remind and imply oneself to alleviate sexual impulses. In addition to chatting with a girl, you can also participate in some beneficial social and cultural activities with her to distract your attention from sex and elevate your love. You should know that true love should be a monk who respects each other, not just emotional impulses and whims. In passionate love, one should understand oneself, love the other person, give new charm to the desire, and measure the depth of the desire with reason. The wider the scope of a person's non sexual love, the more noble their sexual love is.