A posture suitable for virgins to have sex for the first time. Maintaining gentlemanly demeanor and tenderness can last for a long time

The first sexual encounter of a virgin, accompanied by the rupture of the hymen and vaginal pain, is unforgettable both physically and psychologically. So for men, this is a test of whether you are a good husband or a good boyfriend. Psychologically, you need to give her enough comfort. Love her and comfort her. Tell her that this is an essential step in becoming a true woman. If she says no, you must not force it. Not to mention the foolish act of raping her. This not only harms her, but you also cannot get happiness from it, only vent.

So when she shyly agrees, there is no fixed position for you to adopt. But from the perspective of caring for women (as the pain of piercing the hymen is inevitable), it is recommended to use the following method: the woman should lie flat on her back on the edge of the bed and raise her legs high. The male is standing under the bed with his front face between the legs of the female. This type of sexual intercourse has the following advantages: the penis can pierce the hymen with the slightest force.

That's it for the first time, don't make any more violent thrusts. Girls only have pain. Wait for next time. You can see Malthus about this. In Garcia's "Love During the Cholera", the male protagonist, on his wedding night, in order to dispel his wife's fear of sexual intercourse, deliberately allows her to admire her penis for a night without having sex.

Experienced lovers usually use this method to have sex together. This method also has an advantage: males are more likely to exert force. This posture can also be changed appropriately, such as placing a woman's legs on a man's shoulders; Or a man can clamp a woman's legs with his arms; In this way, there are some changes in the stimulating area of the penis to the vagina, so the sensation is also different.

Another special emphasis is that this way, men can clearly see their penis entering and exiting the vagina, which feels incredibly wonderful. In order for women to also feel this joy, it is very helpful for them to hold a mirror and watch from the side of their body, which can help them reach orgasm.