You meet twice a week, but what does this mean? At present, you may not be a potential couple yet. A man can honestly say that becoming his girlfriend is an extremely long process that requires at least the following 14 steps. You might as well take a look——
1. Viewing sex
Some people believe that men take sex seriously and see it as a symbol of intimacy. Indeed, many young men still hold this attitude.
2. Overnight outside
Sex itself is not reliable, such as staying out overnight. Many people feel embarrassed when they wake up in the morning to find someone lying next to them. He can only spend the night outside with people he particularly desires to be close to.
3. Making breakfast after staying out overnight
If he still cooks breakfast for you the next day after spending the night outside, it means he wants to stay with you for a while longer. Because even the simplest breakfast requires him to give up some things, such as paying attention to the stock market situation and doing morning exercises with friends.
4. Allow you to use his beloved item
Men usually don't easily lend things they love to others. But if they are generous to you, it means that you hold a heavy weight in their hearts.
5. Intimate small actions in public places
For example, when you are dining with a friend at a restaurant, he is caressing you under the table, or when you are standing together, he slides his hand into your shirt and caresses your back.
These small actions are often invisible to others, so this is not to express your relationship to others, but to let them know that you share a space in the vast sea of people.
6. Kiss you passionately in the public places he frequents
This is a clear indication. Otherwise, he will be afraid of being seen by others because he doesn't want to make your relationship public yet.
7. Allow you to see his collection of small items
Some people may swear, "There's something in my bedroom that women will never see," such as photos of my old girlfriend, baseball cards collected in high school, and so on. But when he meets his true love, his little things will run out on their own. Because she spends more time with me than anyone else, it's difficult to hide anything from her. And I also hope she sees these things so she can understand me better
8. He doesn't hide his privacy from you
That means there are no secrets between you anymore.
9. He accepted your suggestions on his clothing
If you like the image of a tough guy, he will buy jeans and cowboy boot for himself after dating you. So you may become his girlfriend.
10. After seven months, no third party has intervened yet
Some people highly value the seven month principle. Because he may still feel like you can't be a couple after dating you for six months. But if you have been dating for seven months without any third party intervening, then whether you realize it or not, you are already a couple.
11. He needs to contact other women
After you've been dating for several months, if he says to you, 'I don't want to get married yet, let's break up. We should go meet someone else.'. Then you agree with him. It's very likely that he will come back to you soon.
12. Using 'We'
When he sees you as his significant other, he unconsciously transforms' me 'into' us' in conversation. And when he travels, he considers the cost of two people.
13. He shouted loudly, you saw his tears
Most men believe that crying bitterly is a sign of cowardice because they always imagine themselves as strong, so it is easy to imagine how difficult it is to cry bitterly in front of a woman they are dating. If you see his tears, it means he loves you because he shows you his most authentic side.
14. Day after day
In fact, there is no way to thoroughly understand whether a person's thoughts are mature enough. I think perhaps this is the most attractive aspect of love. Emotions always require us to constantly manage and work hard, day after day, year after year... That's how true lovers are honed.