A man needs to practice slowing down the rhythm, keeping her orgasmic and having sex secrets

1、 Men are particularly sensitive to sexual evaluation in the desire for ice and fire. When men hear a woman's advice or demands, they may sometimes feel that the woman is correcting or criticizing themselves. Many men find it difficult to accept this. If you can provide both cold and hot information, it will be very helpful for your partner. In life, you may sometimes play hide and seek games to find good things hidden.

The same goes for sex, which provides two vastly different types of information - cold and hot - rather than simply speaking it out. When the person looking for something is too close to you, you should say it's too hot; When the person looking for something is too far away from you, you have to say it's too cold. Similarly, women can say things like 'you're a little hot' or 'you're a little cold' to their partner during sexual intercourse.

These responses are very necessary. Men seem to be blindfolded and need guidance from women to find a way of comfort. Men want to know whether their every touch is cold or hot. Feedback is particularly important for men who are familiarizing themselves with women's bodies.

2、 What methods do men need to learn

When discussing with women what they most want from men, they will tell you that they hope their partner can slow down their hand. Slow caressing can increase a woman's sexual pleasure.

Men are different. Direct touching will bring him great pleasure. Many women are not aware of this, and men become frustrated because they have been waiting for a long time without receiving stimulation.

Men need to practice slowing down the rhythm. When men learn to consciously bring wonderful stimuli to women, habits will evolve into an instinct. Men need to remember that to increase a woman's pleasure, they need to delay direct stimulation. This will take longer, and sometimes even if it takes a very long time, there seems to be no progress, but the ultimate effect is that the woman's pleasure will be stronger.

3、 Use some techniques to make her relax

Women need to relax first before they can slowly enter the role of sex. For men, this is generally very difficult to understand. This is because in this sense, women and men are vastly different. Sometimes men only relax after reaching it. Most women need to relax before fully enjoying sex.

In books about sex, we often find such a suggestion: women can dim the light and have a long, warm Bubble bath before sex. Before I realized the difference between men and women, I could hardly understand this. If I had taken a long, warm bath, I might have fallen asleep. However, now I understand that women are relaxing themselves in this way.

4、 Skilled women and men do this

Skilled women always directly stimulate the most sensitive and arousing parts of men; Skilled men first stimulate the least sensitive and least arousing parts of women. Skilled men first stimulate the least sensitive and least easily aroused parts of women. Skilled women first stimulate the most sensitive parts of men. By mastering the art of arousing women's sexual desire, men will have confidence in stimulating the excitement and happiness of their partners. And this confidence itself is enough to excite women. Next, we will explore how to increase sexual confidence.

A man's confidence convinces a woman of what he wants to do and that even if there is something wrong, he can handle it flexibly. Men are also excited, just for the sake of women's confidence, their performance is different. Whether it's a woman or a man, sexual confidence is a fundamental stimulus for sexual activity. When men feel that women have confidence in themselves, they are more likely to become excited. If a woman's eyes send this message - I believe we can have a wonderful time together, men won't be too busy during sex. Especially when women take the initiative to get intimate with men, men are even more excited.

However, if a woman appears too confident, as if sex is in control, then it may have a hint of contempt for men. Men may doubt whether they can meet their demands and whether they can last long enough to make her climax frequently. Of course, having confidence in oneself is a good thing for women, but like all advanced bedroom techniques, women's ability to satisfy men is reflected by helping them successfully satisfy themselves. In sexual intercourse, a woman's ability to satisfy a man is reflected by helping him successfully satisfy himself.

5、 Discussions between couples cannot improve

Men always believe that they should be a sex expert, and women also expect men to show expert performance. In this way, men are unwilling to try to improve due to complacency or self deception. Women usually don't proactively tell men what they want because they don't want sex to remain the same. They want two people to explore the true meaning of sex together.

Women may think that if a man truly loves her, he should know how to do it. This feeling is fantasized by a romantic soul and cannot create perfect sex at all. In addition, women are usually afraid that men will know their sexual needs, and they are worried that men will despise her or be unwilling to follow her needs. If women have to tell men what to do, they are just picking out romantic topics that are not related to sex. Women may think that if a man truly loves her, he should know how to do it.

This feeling is fantasized by a romantic soul and cannot create perfect sex at all. Although most books on sex nowadays discuss the importance of communication, many couples are unable to communicate effectively and generally rarely discuss sex. They only have a rough discussion when there are sexual issues. The dissatisfied party begins to complain about sex, but the other party doesn't listen at all. In such a situation, communication is not an interesting experience at all, but rather more like criticism or blame. In fact, from a certain program perspective, it is like this.

6、 Cleverly Talking about Sex and Love

The way to overcome communication difficulties is for two people to read a book about sex together and then discuss it again. When your partner is not afraid of being blamed for their mistakes, your communication will be smoother. When you hear approval, you can express your agreement with it, which implies that you already know what he/she needs.

No matter how much we know about sex, understanding the differences in needs between men and women is beneficial and harmless to us. Only after we understand these differences can we know what he or she needs, so that we can be more motivated.

When I talk about sex, I ask the audience to applaud when they hear what they think is exciting, and I also ask them to emphasize to their partners that what I am saying is the essence. Men often sneer at the place where women applaud the most, and vice versa. When wives applaud, husbands don't have to consider what they're saying to themselves. Because sometimes Almost all women are applauding, they are applauding for their own hearts. The wife no longer needs to tell her husband what she needs. Through the warm applause from the wife, the husband can fully understand.