If you want to succeed with women, you must learn the correct way to attract them. What I mean is, you have to avoid the mistakes that 99% of men make. When most men approach women, they usually lack confidence, do not maintain meaningful eye contact, and lack the necessary social skills to generate attraction in the first conversation.
If you always obey her, then she will really feel tired of you
Women are not attracted to men who do not know what they want in life. Women are not attracted to men without a backbone. If you always obey her, then she will really feel tired of you.
You will notice that in your communication with various types of women, they will challenge you. This is a method they use to test you to see if you are the one you are referring to. So when you try to talk to her, she may gradually become interested in you.
One thing I have learned over the years is that women like to test men. Therefore, they will do things that may seem strange. She may suddenly ask you to buy her a drink, or she may use an excuse to go to the restroom and then stop halfway to chat with the man she knows. She didn't do it because she was mean, she just wanted to see if you were jealous. Unreliable men are jealous, while reliable men are not. So, be careful with these tests, as they are always present.
When you talk to women, remember the following:
1. Maintain eye contact for longer than normal hours.
2. Make sure you have confident body language.
3. Ask her some questions that she can freely answer, and then let her play on her own.
4. Don't talk too much about yourself, never boast about your work, money, or car, because these things only convey unreliable information.
5. Ensure edge trimming. This will convey the message that you value your appearance and your self-esteem.
6. At the end of the conversation, ask her for contact information.
7. Don't soak too long unless you plan to get a chance to be alone with her and truly establish a relationship. Otherwise, just change places or get her contact information and leave.
Following the above guidelines, you will go further in the competition. So the next time you go online, or at a coffee shop, or bookstore, pay attention to these guidelines and follow them, your chances of success will skyrocket.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)