Sexual Health
6 tips for creating time and emotions for partners to naturally express and coordinate their sexual life
Post Date May, 12 2023
Famous sexologist Robert Cosby believes through research that if a couple is happy and happy, it must be because their emotions and bodies blend very well. He said that according to years of research, the strongest moments between couples are often the moments of deepest love. Sexual life requires not only physical coordination, but also emotional harmony.
NO.1. It is rare to attract others in a seductive way, but it is an instinct of women to show their charm in front of men. This way, women feel beautiful and sexy. Of course, tempting the other person does not necessarily mean possessing them, but rather cultivating emotions beforehand. For example, giving hints to the other party and showing some intimate behavior. Tempting the other party also means that the male constantly attracts the other party during the process, indicating intimacy. Generally, women's sexual arousal is achieved through thinking, image, and suggestion, while men are more likely to experience it through vision and touch. During the process, women pay attention to the other person's emotions and their position in their minds.
NO.2. Sex is not just Sherry and Mike coming to my office. Mike blushed and asked, 'We can hardly have sex. My wife complains that I gave her too little love, but when I told her, she ignored or even refused me. I think she hates sex.'. At this moment, my wife resumed the conversation: Mike has a monotonous relationship and rarely expresses love. Only during the moment of sexual activity, he always kisses my neck and says that I look beautiful, etc. He always says those few words that make me unable to stimulate emotions, so I feel disgusted and nervous about sexual activity. The situation of this couple is very common, and women always complain that their husbands should give them more emotions and love, not just in the moment of sexual activity.
And they believe that when they show love to each other, they should launch an attack, and their wives should accept it. Therefore, maintaining fresh and happy emotions with your spouse requires frequent exchange of ideas. Be considerate and understand each other to maintain their persistence, and should not wait until the beginning of sexual activity to make efforts. Only in this way can this spontaneous love resonate between spouses, and both parties will feel that their sexual life is coordinated rather than sudden.
NO.3. Making love is a desire of men. Many women are not aware of what refusing sex means to men, and men believe that making love is the main way to give love and emotions to each other. When men stimulate the idea of having sex, they often feel excited and impulsive, demanding that the other party accept it immediately. Women should understand the characteristics of men, which is why men get angry when rejected by others, especially when they hear them say things like I don't love you or hate you. In this situation, if the woman does not have such a request, she should tell her husband that this is not the right time and should cherish it.
NO.4. It can only be a big mistake to cause suspicion between two people. When selflessly dedicating oneself to the other party, both parties have a sense of emotional security and should cherish this emotion. On the contrary, without a sense of security and mutual suspicion, both parties will fall into distress. Therefore, suspicion can cause cracks and even interrupt sexual activity between couples. A wife became indifferent to her husband when she discovered some pornographic magazines in his drawer, which made her feel like she had lost her place in his mind. The other husband loved his wife very much, but found out that she had a new partner outside. Finally, the wife contracted it, and both parties were in great pain, but it was too late to repent. So love must be focused.
Seeking novelty does not mean seeking Judith to cry as soon as she stepped into the office. She said she had fallen out with her husband. Her husband believes that sexual activity requires constant stimulation. Ted asked me to change the type of perfume, often changing the style of hair style and clothes. We have had sex in the kitchen and laundry room, and I can't bear it. Ted believes that sexual activity should be diverse and constantly changing forms. At present, he has discovered that his wife dislikes him and is beginning to realize this problem, but he cannot extricate himself. He is worried that one day he will dislike Judith and find a new partner. Fortunately, this situation is not common. More commonly, many couples stop cultivating their emotions once they get married, causing the once illusionary happiness to disappear.
NO.6. Creating time for intimacy should naturally reveal emotions. After dinner, couples should try to find time to sit together and talk, pour out their thoughts, discover new things about each other, and create good conditions for sex. However, in real life, few couples stay together after meals, but are burdened with many household chores, such as cleaning, paying accounts, continuing to work during the day, going out to attend meetings, helping children review homework, or feeling tired and taking early breaks. In short, most couples feel that they have no leisure time. The solution to this problem is to take a walk, sit down to listen to music, or exchange ideas during a busy time of half an hour to one hour. It is best not to mention household chores or worries during this period. Both parties should learn to create opportunities for sexual activity, rather than mechanically engaging in sexual activity.
