Nowadays, cohabitation before marriage is no longer a shameful thing. Men and women who plan to get married cohabit to try marriage first, which is the happiness of the relationship for a lifetime. During the cohabitation stage of trial marriage, both men and women should pay special attention.
Take proper contraceptive measures
Women are born to live for love and men, so once they fall into love and marriage, they can't wait to give everything they have, including life. In cohabitation, during sexual intercourse, one may accidentally become pregnant, so both men and women must take contraceptive measures. Condoms are the most popular contraceptive tool. Double safety condom, made of high-quality natural latex, with a moderate increase in thickness, providing more peace of mind for love and safer intimacy: the quality far exceeds international standards, double lubrication, natural comfort, allowing you to fully rub out the spark of love.
Balancing the relationship between both parents
If he is still spoiled by his parents like a child, I hope you can also coax him like them. However, your maternal nature is not so strong, and he has also enjoyed the treatment of being a son, which will cause a lot of friction between you in the future. If both parents don't get along well, even superficial harmony cannot be achieved. If you don't like their parents, they will also criticize your parents, which will become a hidden danger to future happiness.
The Way to Use Money
One is frugality, another is waste. For example, when receiving a monthly water and electricity bill, the party who may save may complain: "Why always forget to turn off the lights? Why always leave the water on when brushing teeth?" One person likes it and buys it, while the other person always buys cheap goods... The difference in money and buying methods actually includes differences in the overall values. Unless one party is particularly tolerant of this difference, of course, there are also many people who waste their premarital stinginess or are generous after marriage.
Pay attention to household chores
In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much household chores, but also some trivial matters that need to be paid attention to: for example, a person who likes to litter and hang clothes at the same distance between hangers; One loves to keep everything, while the other treats it like garbage after reading a magazine; Even the difference between squeezing toothpaste and making a big deal out of small details often becomes the trigger for a big argument.
Other life details that need attention include: TV remote control; Diet (noise during meals; excessive drinking; whether to continue eating or pouring out overnight dishes...); Especially now that there are more and more people buying cars, a new question arises: Does he always provide guidance (verbose) while you are driving? He always asks you to drive according to his route? It seems that men who learn to remain silent within are becoming increasingly rare nowadays.
Joint progress and retreat in career
You can have your own career, but while striving for your own career, no matter how busy you are, you must care about each other's career progress and make them feel that you are a partner who can share joys and sorrows with them.
In addition, many women, once they are confident in their love, are easily discouraged in their careers and work. In the long run, it will make you increasingly distant from your cohabiting boyfriend who is dedicated to his career, which is the perfect reason for him to cheat and divorce after marriage.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)