Getting along with a spouse is a profound knowledge that requires continuous learning and improvement in order to maintain a harmonious relationship between two people and enhance their emotions. In a long marriage, when two people are together, it is important to have a positive attitude and handle conflicts between them rationally and correctly. Today, the editor will provide some suggestions for everyone to get along better.
Don't indulge your behavior
Many people indulge their behavior when they are feeling down. This is not only irresponsible towards oneself, but also a kind of harm to the lover. Whether you choose to indulge your behavior emotionally or physically, it is a provocation to your partner. For example, depression, reckless spending, suicide, etc. It is recommended that everyone find a place where both parties can have a peaceful conversation for 30 minutes, and then figure out what behaviors are causing obstacles to their loved ones, and reflect on each one individually.
Don't say things that belittle the other person
There should be an equal relationship between husband and wife, so in getting along, do not hold others in high regard, despise each other, or say derogatory things about each other. For example, 'Why are you so lazy!' and so on. Such words can greatly hurt the other party's self-esteem, which in turn can affect the relationship between you. Suggest everyone to list all their dissatisfaction on a piece of paper, and then try replacing the words' you 'with' me ', and try communicating with your loved ones using sentences starting with' me '.
Don't seek help from third parties
A quarrel between a husband and wife is like a war between two countries, where both want the support of others to consolidate their position. However, when a third party appears, communication between you will become difficult and it will not be possible to fundamentally resolve the conflicts between you. So, when conflicts arise, don't rush to seek help. It is recommended that both parties calm down for a few days, consider the gains and losses in the marriage relationship, and write down what they need to improve; After a few days, communicate face-to-face with your partner again.
Experts point out that a good way of getting along between couples can help enhance their relationship, lay the foundation for a harmonious sexual life, and make your marriage even sweeter.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)