Post Date June, 27 2023
A few days ago, a 12 year old boy from Wuhan, Hubei Province ended his life in a strange way. When his guardian discovered him, he was hanging on a beam, wearing 7-8 pieces of women's clothing, and had his feet tied with ropes more than 20 times. The technique was very professional. After investigation, it was preliminarily determined that the accidental death was caused by sexual asphyxia. In the boy's mobile phone record, it was found that he had purchased women's stockings and dresses multiple times and browsed private websites multiple times. Uniquely, this incident also occurred in November 2009. His son was wearing a red dress and black swimsuit, his hands and feet were tied with ropes, and a weight was still hanging from his feet. His hands were hung on the roof beam and he died. The police detected body fluid in the boy's clothing, and it was preliminarily determined that he had died from sexual suffocation. I believe everyone is unfamiliar with sexual asphyxia, so it's worth learning about its common sense and doing a good job in educating children about sex.
What is sexual asphyxia?
Sexual asphyxia is like the name, obtaining sexual pleasure through suffocation. Some people can pursue stimulation and use binding methods to put themselves in a special position, where their limbs cannot receive normal blood supply, resulting in certain hallucinations and numbness, in order to obtain pleasure. Some people also use plastic bags to cover their heads, isolating the respiratory tract from the outside world, resulting in a sense of suffocation and achieving sexual satisfaction. When the brain is hypoxic, it will make people in a semi hallucinatory state. During the process of suffocation, alkalosis and hypoxia can cause people to experience mental excitement and sexual pleasure, causing congestion in the genitals and facilitating penile erection. In a state of low oxygen, it enhances the pleasure of masturbation. This situation generally occurs in males, and this sexual behavior is very dangerous. Due to the lack of preventive measures, neck compression exceeded the load, resulting in suffocating death. Sexual asphyxia is abnormal behavior, but prominent personality characteristics or Personality disorder have a lot to do with it.
Who is easy to recruit?
Generally, individuals with personality defects may experience setbacks in their normal long-distance relationship, and their children may be affected by their family environment. Long term exposure to obscene and pornographic materials, as well as previous special hobbies, can hinder their sexual psychology and lead to abnormal sexual behavior. In addition, introverted and silent young people are also prone to this, as their clothing is very unique.
How should we avoid or treat it?
1. Provide children with correct sex education
Sexual education should start around the age of 3 for children, starting with gender awareness. The area covered by vests and underwear is a private part that no one can touch. Especially for girls, establishing gender education from an early age and fully understanding gender can better protect themselves.
