Post Date April, 15 2023
Premarital sex and unmarried pregnant girls are still quite a few in real life. According to the statistics of premarital examination in a maternity hospital, the phenomenon of premarital sex has reached an alarming level; Many girls become pregnant prematurely, which seriously affects their physical and mental health. Why does the phenomenon of having sex before marriage and getting pregnant before marriage become an objective reality?
After a survey of unmarried girls who had been pregnant before marriage and had artificial abortion, it was found that premarital sex mainly occurred in the following typical psychology:
Passionate love psychology: Two people enter a passionate relationship from their first love, feeling like glue and not seeing each other for a day. When love reaches its peak, once a vow of love is made, sexual activity also follows. Although these girls may feel shy about having an abortion, they do not feel empty or discouraged, and even consider it a selfless dedication to their boyfriend.
Appealing psychology: These girls believe that their boyfriends have better conditions than themselves in all aspects. When their boyfriends make sexual demands, they silently agree and cater to each other because they are afraid of losing them.
Possessive psychology: This type of girl believes that her boyfriend is good, while other girls have a certain degree of competitiveness with her. In order to avoid losing in the competition, they engage in sexual behavior, resulting in a fait accompli and achieving the purpose of possession.
Concealing psychology: They often engage in sexual activity with their boyfriends as a last resort. When boyfriends make sexual demands, they don't want to do so from the bottom of their hearts, but they can't resist it and do it.
Lucky mentality: After having sexual intercourse for the first time, most people develop a nervousness and fear of pregnancy. But over time, when I realized that it was okay, I developed a sense of luck. As a result, she became pregnant.
Subjective psychology: These girls often seek help from men to solve difficulties such as recruitment, and are coerced and controlled by the men. Despite their inner reluctance, they still endure sexual activity.
Curious psychology: As young girls enter the stage of puberty and development, with the increase of sexual hormone levels in their bodies, a series of changes occur in their bodies, and at the same time, they also develop a curious psychology towards sex. These young girls engage in sexual activity with a curious desire to try.
Reverse psychology: These girls are often prevented from associating with their sweetheart by their families, relatives, friends and organizations, so they have reverse psychology and sexual behavior.
It doesn't matter: influenced by the Western sexual liberation, these girls have a indifferent attitude towards premarital sex, so they can't stop.
Early sexual awakening: Adolescent girls develop a hazy sexiness and enjoy socializing with the opposite sex. The increasing number of neutral scenes in movies and TV dramas, rich youth communication, and diverse social influences have led them to advance their love for childhood sexual awakening. A kiss from a lover on the screen, a passionate gesture in an art magazine, a subtle sexual description in a novel, a intimate action in the park... all naturally attract the attention and contemplation of girls in the hazy period, arousing their desire to make friends with the opposite sex and generating a subtle sexual impulse. Their social experience is not rich, they are shallow in the world, and they are not easy to control their emotions. They are prone to falling in love and unable to extricate themselves, and even a mistake can become eternal hatred. Adolescence is also known as the sexual danger period by psychologists.
In order to prevent and reduce the occurrence of premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy, teenagers should be given appropriate positive education on sexual physiology, sexual psychology and sexual morality. For adolescent girls, parents and teachers should never simply or rudely interfere in their social interactions. They should provide positive education and correct guidance, help them establish a correct view of the opposite sex, and teach them not to indulge in blind pursuit of the opposite sex and waste their learning time, which will ruin their precious youth. The hugging and kissing scenes in movies and parks, the sexual descriptions in novels, and the sexy photos and portraits in pictorials should be strengthened, and the correct aesthetic awareness should be cultivated to help them take the essence and discard the dross. Girls should strive to be self-centered, self-respect, self-love, self-improvement, and firmly build psychological defense in their interactions with the opposite sex, eliminate distractions, and actively engage in learning. In the event of premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy, parents, schools and units should use correct education and help methods, and should never discriminate, satirize, satirize and scold, and should avoid increasing their mental trauma; We should respect their personalities and guide them to learn from the perspectives of love, help, and sympathy. Medical personnel should establish good medical ethics and adopt a compassionate attitude of treating and saving patients, and being kind to others. Only when the whole society mobilizes, can we reduce and eliminate the abnormal phenomenon of premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy, enable teenagers to successfully pass the dangerous period of youth, and enable them to develop and grow healthily in mind and body.
