Women are always passive in love. They hope that their men can understand themselves. Women are always in a passive situation in love. Women prefer that the other party take the initiative first. They think that the other party takes the initiative first, so that they can show their love for themselves. When a woman is dragging her tired body home, busy cooking and taking care of her children, she most hopes that the man can take the initiative to help her. But she knows that the man who works all day is also very hard, so she can't bear to let him do this or that. She can't say what she has in her heart, and she can only bear it silently. Especially at such critical moments, women want each other to take the initiative.
1、 Take the initiative to ask for warmth when the body is out of time.
Women are very vulnerable when they are sick or sick during the physiological period. They most want men to accompany them to take care of and comfort them, but they often can't bear to affect their work. They want him to stay in their hearts, but they will say: "I'm fine, you don't have to worry, go to work at ease, don't be late." If the man really leaves at this time, women will have a sense of loss in their hearts. Therefore, men should understand women's contradictory psychology, take the initiative to ask for warmth and comfort when their bodies are not in good time, and try to take time to accompany and comfort her. Ignorance will make her very disappointed.
2、 Take the initiative to be considerate when tired.
Modern women not only need to go out to work, but also undertake most of the housework, and often work harder than men. When a woman is dragging her tired body home, busy cooking and taking care of her children, she most hopes that the man can take the initiative to help her. But she knows that the man who works all day is also very hard, so she can't bear to let him do this or that. She can't say what she has in her heart, and she can only bear it silently. Therefore, men should be considerate of women's hard work after work and take the initiative to share some housework, even if you do nothing, as long as you stand by and chat, women will also feel happy.
3、 When the husband and wife quarrel, they take the initiative to appease her.
Women like to be spoiled and coaxed by men, and it is no exception during the quarrel between husband and wife. Most of women's quarrels are spoiled, and men can only coax them. Women do not want to have a cold war after quarreling and venting, and they are eager for men to take the initiative to be soft, but they are embarrassed to say that they often wait for the steps with tears or anger. There is no reason between husband and wife, and home is not a reasonable place. Men should be generous and give a bad smile or hug to the woman after the quarrel, and let her borrow the donkey. Maybe they will say "you hate!"
4、 When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dispute, they take the initiative to come out.
Some mothers-in-law have deep-rooted traditional ideas and always want to carry an inappropriate mothers-in-law shelf. Even if the daughter-in-law is very obedient, they also pick bones in the eggs, lest the daughter-in-law cover themselves and threaten the dignity of mothers-in-law. Some women are troubled by their mother-in-law, and want her husband to take the initiative to speak a fair word. But after all, her mother-in-law is his mother, so it is not easy for men to be in a dilemma. They either swallow their anger or fight hard, which makes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very stiff. Therefore, men should take the initiative to play the role of bridge and tie, stick to the matter as it is, and timely coordinate and resolve the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Although the married woman splashes water, the mother's family is her close relatives after all. Men should support women to repay their parents for their upbringing and fulfill their duty of filial piety according to law. Women are most in trouble when their family encounters difficulties or changes. They are eager to help but embarrassed to open their mouth. They are most eager for men to offer help. At this time, a man should understand the woman's sufferings and help his parents-in-law through the difficulties within his power. No matter how much money he can put out, the woman will be grateful for her heart. She will also show her gratitude and take the initiative to honor her parents-in-law.