Post Date April, 15 2023
Playing coquettish is really not a woman's exclusive right. In today's increasingly fierce competition and immense pressure, men also have a vulnerable side, and they also need comfort. If one day, when you are too tired to act coquettishly in front of your wife or girlfriend, do not suppress this impulse, as it is beneficial for your health; The woman should not say that he is not like a man, because you are the most suitable person to meet his spiritual needs in this regard.
Men act coquettishly more frequently than their wives
A survey has found that among 1400 households in different countries, races, educational backgrounds, age characteristics, and income levels, an interesting phenomenon has emerged: men tend to act coquettishly at home more frequently than their wives.
Men also act coquettishly, which may sound fresh, but this is indeed a play that is performed in daily life, but most of it is only performed in the "backstage". Life is a big stage. At the front desk, men play their respective social roles; In the backstage, the performance of the characters may be difficult for the general audience to see. People are mostly accustomed to positioning men based on the image of the previous stage, while neglecting the background image that men originally possess.
In the division of gender roles, women themselves have maternal characteristics, which is one of the reasons why men are more likely to act coquettishly in front of women in private. Another reason is the differences in social roles. Men have always played a strong social image and are also under more psychological pressure. Men have been taught since childhood that if you are a man, he should be strong. In the family, men are often seen as the center of gravity, and they need to use sturdy arms to shelter their families from wind and rain. However, men are not cast in iron. They are naturally like women, with a fragile side and spiritual pain that needs to be comforted. Moreover, men have fewer opportunities to vent their emotions when it comes to playing strong roles in society than women. So when the man returned home, he exposed his vulnerability to his "psychological mother" for spiritual comfort.
Career is the capital for men to act coquettishly
Psychologists believe that in most cases, career is just an excuse for men, but this does not mean that spoiled men do not have a career. On the contrary, career is often the capital they rely on to act spoiled. It can be expressed in two forms: monetary capital and image capital. Currency is a universal form of expression, while image is a symbol of status. At the beginning of a career, external monetary symbols are often needed to embellish it, such as high-end brand suits, Rolex gold watches, thick gold bracelets or necklaces. But when capital accumulation enters the substantive stage, they will suddenly realize the vulgarity of this form of expression, and feel ashamed of it. Then they will dress casually like real big bosses, and hide their rising status with loose and comfortable mid-range casual clothes.
When there is no one, looking back on the past, they will have a sense of confusion about gains and losses, and the fear of impending death gradually rises into an anxiety that often leads to endocrine disorders. At this point, they will act coquettishly towards the woman they deeply love, like children, with pleading eyes. But some wives believe that this is an embarrassment that their husband cannot face after committing a wrongdoing, leading to a stalemate in the marital relationship.
Playing coquettish is not a man's killer weapon
Mastering a husband's diverse ways of playing coquettish can truly understand his psychological needs. When the husband is silent in front of you, when the tears suddenly fall, when the husband is in extreme pain, when the husband wants to watch TV next to you... it is important to understand his inner needs in a timely manner.
Experts believe that shedding tears is not the killer tactic for coquettish men. Although this tactic is effective for women, it is not easily used. But this does not prevent them from telling their tearful stories, which of course mean suffering. For a responsible man, when playing coquettish, he can list many responsibilities, including everything for his family, wife, daughter, parents, country, and career. Let women understand the immense pressure he carries, in order to create a sense of 'pity for fragrance and cherish jade'.
In short, in real life, men not only work hard to manage their families and careers, but also need a garden for emotional release. At this time, the wife must open her heart to accept her husband's "coquettishness", which can effectively help her husband relieve stress while harmonizing their marital relationship.
