A life without a plan is called a puzzle, and a life with a plan is called a blueprint. Some people have only known each other for a few days, as if they have known each other for many years, because you can see the hearts that shine.
In love, what is needed is to be someone with a heart in order to become the other person's sweetheart. Many people do not understand the philosophy of getting along in love. Even if they have love, they often go their separate ways because they do not know how to handle their conflicts. In fact, good love is both a constraint and a freedom. When you have mastered the balance of love, you have mastered the key to beautiful love.
Firstly, one must learn to slim down one's own desires.
Before there was love, perhaps all you wanted was: 'May you have a heart, and your white head will never part'. But after having love, you only realize that seemingly small things have become very big with you.
Because you care too much about each other, the result of caring is that both parties tend to be emotional and difficult to take responsibility for their own decisions. In such a situation, your expectations for each other begin to amplify. As time goes by, the other party can't bear the heavy pressure and will magnify many problems, even causing both parties to break up in displeasure. So, you need to learn to slim down your desires in order to return to rationality.
Secondly, it is important to respect the other party.
If you like the other person, then you need to respect them, instead of constantly embarrassing them and making them feel less happy with you when encountering problems.
Many couples often start to get tired of each other when they are in love. The most important reason is that they do not know how to love each other in the way they like, but always live their own selves. If you can return to the time you first met, it is easy to be satisfied and never tear your face, then you will show an unprecedented harmony between them.
Once again, love belongs to harmony in the spirit.
Love can last long, often because both parties get along harmoniously. So don't think that noise is just a small matter, and many emotions are shattered by endless noise.
The reason for arguments and arguments between both parties is often due to insufficient understanding of the other party. If you can understand that having a spiritual partner with you is already a fortunate time in life, you will have the best respect for the other party.
Finally, learn to care for the other person from their perspective.
The secret to redeeming love is to use the other person's psychology to redeem love. One should learn to get along with the other person with heart and care for them from the perspective of their needs.
When you understand how to get along well with each other, you will understand that the reason why your love ends is because you forget your initial hopes and constantly impose demands on each other, which is not the way one person loves another.
Good love often starts from an altruistic perspective, rather than considering problems from one's own perspective. When you understand this, you have the utmost respect from the other party.