Everyone wants to have wonderful love and a lifetime of happiness. In a relationship, we should take care of each other and be considerate towards each other. That's why we want to remind female friends that men are most afraid of you doing the following 8 things. If you insist on doing them, your love may not be guaranteed.
1. Overdependence
Dependence is actually a form of personality imperfection, excessive obedience to the will of others, prolonged experience of helplessness, fear of not being able to take care of oneself, inability to fulfill commitments, and a tendency to fall into the fear of loneliness or abandonment. Severe dependence manifests as a form of attachment, hunger, and insatiable love, willing to play the role of a pitiful person, using weak control to entangle loved ones.
Some women are also very independent individuals in their careers, but they are very emotionally dependent. With their loved ones, their IQ immediately drops to zero. look out! This dependence is just a tactic to control you, and necessary foolishness can respond to her emotional exploitation of you.
2. Sadistic complex
Women often engage in small flirting movements. Do not consider slight biting, pinching, pinching, scratching, or hitting as abuse. As long as there is no skin damage, violent abuse cannot be established.
All domestic violence has a process of growth, and in the early stages, it is important to express a clear aversion to physical harm and not to find excuses or easily forgive the other party. To escalate conflicts, it is necessary to learn the stop technique. A prerequisite for escalating conflicts is that neither person will admit defeat. If you feel that the situation is about to get out of control, it is better to admit defeat or leave first. Let both parties' emotions be buffered.
3. Pursuing Perfection
Women: Overindulgent, self demanding, constantly correct, and fundamentally narcissistic, because they love themselves and do not allow themselves to make mistakes.
A man can fall in love with a fairy like person, but he can only marry an ordinary woman and go home. Life is actually the thing that most needs to be vulgar and unrestrained. Share the joy of making mistakes with her, the laziness and carefree pleasure, and limit her efforts for you beyond the level you can repay.
4. Excessive suspicion
Woman: She likes to catch the wind and shadow, but deliberately pretends to be very generous. General suspicion is only a means for women to flirt, while excessive suspicion may be a mixture of defect and aggression. They are sensitive to deception, thinking that if a man doesn't tell the truth, they are clearly bullying themselves.
Suggestion for men: Establish necessary rules at the beginning of a relationship, such as not having common friends and not interfering in their respective spaces. Don't make romantic relationships too close, maintaining a proper distance can protect both her and you. Suspected women are very sensitive to intimacy in relationships, and once a certain love pattern is formed, you must persist for decades like a day.
5. Narcissistic indifference
The narcissistic personality is an undifferentiated mud ball with no internal structure. When it's time to be angry, there's no anger, and when it's time to be happy, there's no happiness. Holding such a woman, you may even feel lonely and cold.
You have to create some unique ways of communication to achieve communication between two people. Of course, some very independent women may also have a hidden coldness in their personality. You cannot integrate into her heart, move her, or conquer her.
Suggestion for men: Develop simple rules for information and emotional communication to help them gain sufficient security.
6. To stir up trouble and pester recklessly
Exaggeration, emotional outburst, and tendency towards self abuse are several major characteristics of a dramatic personality. It is difficult for you to communicate with her in a normal way because she has many distorted experiences of reality. If she lies, it is definitely not because she wants to lie because she cannot distinguish between reality and imagination.
All you need to do is unconditionally accept her emotions, don't think she's just messing around. It is very important to give her a sense of security and praise at all times. The eternal praise you maintain for her is equivalent to giving her diamond jewelry, and her feedback on you will always surprise you.
7. Emotional Contradiction
She cannot distinguish whether she wants to rely on you or leave you, lacks emotional control and foresight, and cannot tolerate anxiety. I don't know if I love you or not, I have an affair haphazardly, and then confess it like a confession, causing pain to those who love her.
Suggest men: It's better to stay away from her.
8. Excessive cleanliness
Women with cleanliness tendencies are always overly cautious and lead rigid and stubborn lives. This is a kind of love that is wrapped in a sleeve, everything is done in a systematic manner, emphasizing the rules of love and neglecting the joy of creation.
Suggestion for men: She is willing to have cleanliness as her own business, but her family cannot suffer from cleanliness. Of course, sometimes you can allow her to turn her bedroom into a clean paradise, like a child's home. After everything is clean and flawless, she can experience the immaculate feeling of her body and mind naked.
If you have the above 8 situations, female friends must adjust and correct these problems in a timely manner in order to better maintain their love and happiness.