"I met my first love ten years ago again, and I don't want to miss the second time, but I'm married."

Q:

In retrospect, I have been in contact with so many members of the opposite sex over the years, and no one can match her. "It's not fair to say this to my wife who has been sharing weal and woe with me for years. I know, but I can't fool myself.".

First love was an old classmate of mine. At that time, when I was young, I couldn't help but remember that I particularly liked to bully her. Seeing her in a hurry, I felt very special in my heart. I wanted to protect her and couldn't help but tease her. "I couldn't see her being wronged. At that time, she came close to our monitor, and for this reason, I had a bad relationship with the monitor.". "Other female classmates came to me to confess, but I didn't pay any attention. Only she was always in my eyes and heart.".

"I can't remember how our relationship eased later, but gradually the two of us were able to chat normally, not the way I made her cry. Later, when I went to college, she didn't pass the exam and went out to work with her uncle.". After maintaining communication for a while, I didn't express myself to her, and the contact gradually faded. "At a classmate's party, she also came. When I saw her, all my thoughts popped up in my heart. At that time, we were still single, and I had just started working, so she hesitated and refused me.". I found out from time to time that a man with better conditions was pursuing her, and I had two houses in my family. I wasn't very willing to talk to her. She had a soft temper and couldn't say no to me, but I couldn't keep in touch with that man.

Later, I met my current wife, the daughter of a businessman, who was born with a knack for calculating accounts and being a good businessman. With her full assistance, my investment gradually paid off. Today, I have a street store that only collects rent, and for the rest of my life, I don't need to do anything and have no worries about food and clothing.

"My wife is no longer in charge. After the initial hard times, she has enjoyed a happy life, playing mahjong every day. The child is taken care of by the family nanny, and she doesn't care. She doesn't care what I do outside, but money is very important.". "But I won't tell you how much you lose or how little you win.".

For a long time, I haven't heard of my first love. Until last year, we unexpectedly met by accident, and she didn't change at all. She's still the way I remember her. I feel like fate has taken a big turn, and the person we should be together will eventually meet again.

She had a hard time. She didn't marry someone with good conditions. Originally, the other person didn't plan to marry at all, and she didn't have the face to come to me again. Later, she married another person. As a result, the man was lazy and lazy, and now he doesn't even have a job, spending her money. She hasn't had children yet. The man would still hit her if he drank too much, but he didn't hit her in the face, and the wounds were all on him. That night at the hotel, she showed me the wound on her wrist, I couldn't help feeling emotional. That time, she didn't refuse me either.

For ten years, fate has been joking and made me miss her again and again. Now I don't want to miss her anymore, but what can I do? Although my wife has been indifferent in recent years, I also understand her temper. When it comes to divorce, she can lift the roof of her house. "But my heart aches for my first love, and I have persuaded her to divorce that man.". But after her divorce, I haven't figured out how to arrange for her

Answer:

"You have everything now, and the only regret is that the relationship didn't work out at that time.". Do you have to distinguish whether you are still thinking about old friendships or just trying to make up for the past?

Divorce means separating your family. Do you have any thoughts or plans? Do you think it's possible for a child to adapt to his stepmother if he wants to be separated from his mother? Sympathizing with the experience of first love can fully provide financial or other assistance within your power, which is a moral help. However, as for feelings that have already been in the past, whether to awaken them or not, and how to deal with them after awakening depends on your personal choice.

What needs to be clear to you is that entering life with anyone for a long time is bound to encounter similar problems. Don't take it for granted that life can be changed for a different person.