Post Date April, 15 2023
My husband has an affair, and I know it's not just a matter of a day or two anymore. From the initial resentment, sadness, arguments, and noise, to the current coldness and numbness in my heart. For this man, I choose to close one eye and keep one eye open. It's not that I really forgive him, but for our daughter's sake. She has just turned 6 years old this year. No matter how wrong adults may be, children are innocent.
I have seen the woman he raised outside, who is just a bit handsome and has a lower education than me. At the height of the uproar, I asked them to stay as far away as possible. My husband didn't dare to stay with that woman in front of me, and I didn't allow him to enter the house. So he had to stay with his parents in law. It's my daughter. Every time I ask for my father, it makes me feel soft and agree to his return. And there are three laws that prohibit him from approaching that woman again.
But where can a verbal agreement handle a man who is used to being wild? We can't even restrain him with a single wedding letter. He is still disconnected from that woman. I have argued and cursed before, but to no avail. Instead, every time I argue, I scare my young daughter. Looking at her like that, I also feel heartbroken. For her sake of this family, I consider myself deaf and blind, unable to see or hear what my husband is doing.
I thought my concession would bring back the peace of this family, but I didn't expect my husband to get even worse. He even carried me and his daughter to that woman's place. I see that every time he takes his daughter out, her daughter always brings back a pile of delicious food or some small toys. I thought her husband bought them for her, but later I casually asked her, 'Is Dongdong happy when Dad buys so many good things for Dongdong?'? Unexpectedly, the daughter's answer was that it was not bought by her father, but by Aunt Liu for Dongdong.
I almost lost my breath! Liu, it's that woman's surname!
Watching my young daughter misled and thinking that 'Aunt Liu is a good person', I feel both painful and anxious. When children grow up, they have no concept of right or wrong. If this continues, I am really worried about my own children!
Miss Zhu:
If it's not because your previous methods were not in place, it's because your husband is really hopeless. He even allows a third party to come into contact with his child, knowing that this is conveying a message: he may want the third party to "take over" your position. Weiqing has encountered many such situations where the husband consciously allows the child to come into contact with a third party, which subtly facilitates the subsequent divorce and family restructuring. be vigilant!
If we continue to tolerate and indulge at such times, the consequences will be unimaginable. It is precisely for the sake of your child that you cannot simply "endure" and must take practical actions to resolve this family crisis. When necessary, you must make a decisive decision.
