Post Date July, 28 2023
Some people describe the feeling of achieving orgasm as sometimes as thrilling and unpredictable as falling off a cliff. So how can we achieve this goal? In fact, it's nothing more than striving from both mental and physical aspects.
1. Prepare for a rainy day
Many women find that if they spend some time in positive Sexual fantasy before the upcoming sexual activity, they can gradually become physically and emotionally excited. This also helps women understand what environmental conditions (such as romantic or pornographic stories, love songs, videos) can excite themselves, so that they can use these conditions appropriately during sexual activity. With this preheating process, women can easily reach the end of victory.
2. Fully relax
Most women often need a transition period that allows them to fully relax before they can accept the pleasure of sexual intercourse, in order to free themselves from the shackles or troubles of work or household chores.
Because tense emotions can have a negative impact on sexual reactions. So, listen to music, take a hot bath, read a book, or do anything that can relax people. When people are in a relaxed state, it will help to achieve orgasm.
3. Don't be distracted
Women often find that their minds are always filled with distractions such as figuring out what to do tomorrow, worrying about privacy issues, lighting too bright, making too loud a sound, and having pets in the bedroom. Any type of distraction can disrupt the sexual attention that is crucial for most women to achieve orgasm. So figuring out the distractions and arranging them all properly before sex will help women focus their attention on their bodies and beautiful feelings, making it easier to achieve orgasm.
4. Eliminate resentment
It can be said that no one would fall in love with a person like a porcupine, with long and hard spines all over their body. Touching them can hurt people, and many women see them this way when they are angry with their partners. Anger estranges people from each other. For most women, it is necessary to eliminate the feelings of resentment and harm before they can achieve the closest union with their partner. Before the union of their sexual organs, the first step is to have a spiritual union.
5. Correct body image
Learning to accept and appreciate one's own body, even if there are some imperfections or defects, is the key to obtaining positive reactions. Anxiety about physical defects such as appearance, sensation, smell, taste, etc. can disrupt sexual responses and, of course, interfere with achieving orgasm. This unease can also interfere with arousal. In other words, the physical and mental reactions are consistent. It's best to remember that although most men may take a second glance at beautiful women, what can drive men crazy more is women's taste and cultivation.
6. Make good use of sensitive areas
The brain must enter erotic mode before it can trigger the body's sexual arousal response. To complete this reaction, it is necessary to observe and follow your partner's every move, and this also requires imagination and fantasies that can ignite your own desires and evoke erotic or romantic situations. The best way is to look at your partner or each other's gaze. But sometimes it is impossible to do this, because many women need to close their eyes when they focus on achieving Orgasm.
7. Focus
When reaching arousal, most women need to focus on their pleasant feelings (especially clitoris and/or vagina) and the growing Sexual arousal. The attention that usually excludes the language reaction will be highly focused on the emotional zone necessary for many women to reach Orgasm.
8. Jump out of the trap of "formal methods"
Most men and women will mistakenly believe that the "normal way" of orgasm can only be achieved through vaginal intercourse (its root comes from Freud's theory), and that Orgasm achieved through clitoral stimulation such as hand or mouth is unacceptable to them. They believe that such orgasm is low-level and abnormal. This false belief makes women who can only achieve Orgasm through clitoral stimulation or need clitoral stimulation feel that they are not healthy. In fact, Orgasm brought by any means is normal and beautiful. To practice the "formal way" of orgasm, women can only fall into the trap of worrying about sexual performance and obviously inhibit Orgasm.
9. Arrange ample time
People often schedule sex very late, but at that time, how much the body craves sleep! If people want to schedule a time for sexual activity (not necessarily pre caressing), it is important to ensure that this period of time does not passively wait for its spontaneous appearance, which is crucial for a harmonious and fulfilling sexual life. This is particularly important for women because they are more likely to have Orgasm when they are energetic than when they are overtired and exhausted.
10. Open communication
For sexual satisfaction and harmonious sexual intercourse, open communication is essential because it is impossible for people to understand the thinking activities in the other person's mind. Conversation not only provides the clearest understanding of the other person's thoughts, but also guides them on how to accurately meet your needs. Open communication issues can enable both parties to be loyal, trust, respect, and capable of facing any crisis.
