Post Date April, 15 2023
1） Most men's standards for measuring women's obesity and thinness are usually much wider than the standards set by women themselves. Many women, especially some flat chested "Princess Taiping", mistakenly believe that men like full breasts. Therefore, once there is a slight disturbance in marriage, they think that their "waves" are not big enough, and even hope for breast augmentation surgery to increase their chest circumference and save a failed marriage.
In fact, men's attention to chest circumference is far from what women imagine. In a survey on which part of the body is more attractive to men, only 50% of men mentioned the chest, while half of them believed that a small chest was more attractive.
The "big meat bullet" often makes men look more at it, but men don't like their wives having plastic surgery to "expand their breasts". The general reasons for opposition are: since I would have married this wife in the first place, it indicates that I have accepted her original appearance, and whether she is big or small is no longer a concern, why bother with it. Secondly, the things that have been reshaped are all fake, no matter how large they are, it makes people feel uncomfortable. Thirdly, just like the average man who looks down on beautiful women but doesn't like his wife to dress up in a flashy or revealing way, his wife is "practical" and it's best not to become the object of others' admiration. Fourthly, although breast augmentation surgery is the only fast and effective method for breast augmentation, while achieving the beauty you need through breast augmentation surgery, you must also face many dangers and pains, such as surgical trauma, excessive scars, the risk of infection, and a one in ten thousand mortality rate during anesthesia. Moreover, about 30% of people experience breast tightness after surgery, and in a few cases, adhesive tape hardening can occur, leading to breast damage or pain
（2） Whenever the morning light shines through the curtains on the bed, you often find that your husband's "bird" has already risen. Sometimes I really want to have sex, sometimes it's just urgent to urinate, and sometimes I don't want anything, but it still naturally gets up, even earlier than you!
Perhaps you are most familiar with your husband's body, but apart from 'this is a natural reaction', what other thoughts would you have?
During sleep, men generally experience involuntary erections, some up to four to six times; Some of them are indeed caused by a spring dream, while others are caused by a swollen bladder; But more often, it's true that you don't want anything, but it just gets up. At this point, what should you do?
If neither person has any sexual activity and the man goes to the restroom to pee, it may return. If it doesn't go back, it's okay. When taking a shower or brushing your face and teeth, there's also enough time for it to curl up and sleep again. Often like this, will it hurt? Don't worry, it won't happen.
If one of them wants to do something, this would be a great opportunity. Men don't have to worry about waiting for it to grow up, what about women? Don't feel like you're taking advantage of someone's danger, feel free to boldly embrace it! Because this may be a "normal physiological response" unrelated to sex, but you can make it a result related to sex.
（3） Do men also have frigidity?
Yes. Male sexual desire decline is a type of dysfunction, often caused by psychological factors. Generally, three aspects can be considered: a woman's attractiveness decreases, or having an extra child in bed hinders the other person's sexual excitement, fatigue, age, and other factors can also affect a person's sexual arousal; The third factor is work pressure, depression, and unhappiness, which can also lead to a decrease in sexual desire.
Lack of sexual desire does not necessarily indicate that two people are no longer in love. Firstly, do not confuse sex and love, but treat them separately. In life, sex and love are sometimes separate and sometimes intertwined.
For men, competition and insecurity often lead to a lack of sexual desire. Mr. Wang and Miss Su, a couple who work in the same branch, were highly valued, while Mr. Wang was not in a good position. Mr. Wang developed a negative mentality, saying, 'I don't deserve her anymore?' When his wife asked him to kiss him during sex, Mr. Wang suddenly became angry and said, 'Don't a real man know how to do it?' From then on, he lost interest in sex. With the help of experts, Mr. Wang finally realized that it was the professional competition between him and his wife that undermined his self-esteem and sexual interest. Under Miss Su's gentle care, Mr. Wang finally regained his "sexual" heart.
Finally, there is another point that many female sexual friends have biases or superstitions towards men's sexual attitudes. In fact, men's attitudes towards sex cannot be measured by their appearance, appearance, strength, or moral integrity. Some people who appear to be carefree in appearance, after getting into bed, act like they are doing business and have no fun at all; Some may appear weak, but after going to bed, they are as lively as dragons and tigers; Some people are shy and reserved in their speech and behavior, but after taking off their clothes, they use various tricks and tricks... first get to know your man, then enjoy your man.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
