People often say 'marriage is a big deal'. The reason for saying this is because marriage directly affects one's sense of happiness for an individual. If the marriage is well managed, only then can one have the energy to do big things. If marriage management is not good, many things will not be done well, because people's energy is limited, so many people want to succeed in their careers, and first of all, they must manage their marriage well.
Women often have expectations for love and marriage. The reason why many people cannot feel happy in marriage is because marriage is too realistic and they are too idealistic. In the opposition between ideals and reality, people's hearts will change. So many men believe that their girlfriend is kind like an angel before marriage, but malicious like a witch after marriage.
For women, if you can't start and end well, you can't blame me for being indifferent. Men will become increasingly indifferent in marriage, while women will become more malicious in marriage. In fact, everything is because of insufficient love and not taking care of the other person's feelings. When one party feels the absence of love, they will start treating the other party with arguments, indifference, verbal abuse, and complaints. Over time, many problems will arise.
On the contrary, if a married man is able to treat each other consistently, then you need to believe in the so-called long-term relationship, and the other party will definitely feel it. Women don't really need much, they need to be valued and loved in front of others. I need to be able to miss her when you are on a business trip, and I hope you also value her in front of your family. When you need to encounter disagreements, you can respect her opinions and hope that you can scrutinize her feelings in many things.
Many men mistakenly believe that women are greedy for money and love, but in fact, this is because love is not enough. If we truly fall in love, we will prioritize love over money. On the contrary, without money and love, your marriage will have problems. When women start to feel confused, this is also the beginning of frequent conflicts between both parties. Once one party does not understand the other party's inner needs, they argue and argue with the other party together. This is also the time when your marriage is undergoing fission.
In reality, there are many times when we always feel that the other person is not good enough and has a small heart. Because we didn't have a tolerant attitude towards each other. Because we haven't seen each other as our significant other yet. If the other person is one of our arms or one of our legs, if we are tired, we will not shake them off. Because we know we can't do without each other.
When two people in a marriage understand the essence of love as mutual understanding and understanding. You will understand that what is truly worth paying attention to in this life is our significant other, because once someone has problems, all of your problems may be affected. So, the way to prevent this kind of emotional self division and harm is to act like a passionate love.
If we knew from the beginning that love is about taking care of each other for a lifetime and cherishing them with a passionate attitude, then we will definitely make ourselves high-quality lovers and thus fulfill our love.