In life or on the screen, we often see that many men go out for entertainment and call for some "ladies" to accompany them in the nightclub. If they go out for dinner or a cocktail party, they will bring their wife or girlfriend with them. Anyway, they must bring a woman with them. A woman is like a man's social necessity and a companion. The rest seem to play little role, but they are indispensable.
Don't think that women can't play a role in men's entertainment. The role played by women is very important and should not be underestimated. Let's see why men can't live without women.
Men need listeners
Men have a strong desire for control in their hearts. They are good at expressing their desire for control and domination by interrupting. Therefore, in many social engagements, you can see that men are more likely to interrupt than women, reflecting the stronger control desire of men.
In interpersonal communication, no one really likes the person who likes to interrupt. Most people like to have a listener. In the entertainment, the other party is also a person with a desire for control and domination. If two men with a strong desire for control meet, it will be Mars hitting the earth, and will not achieve good results. When listening to the other party's long and big truth, men usually can't bear to interrupt the other party and interrupt to express their opinions. Women tend to force themselves to wait patiently for the other party's words to come to an end before expressing their thoughts. At this time, women who know how to hide their inner desire for control within the scope of "politeness" can always win more favorable feelings from each other.
Active atmosphere
Entertainment is very atmosphere oriented. If the atmosphere is not good, many big businesses are difficult to negotiate. Generally speaking, the best way for men to use the active atmosphere is to let everyone drink, which makes people headache. But women are different. Women are born with active cells. Singing a song and dancing can make the atmosphere at the negotiation table more active.
The conversation between men won't sound so tired when women are active nearby. A wise woman usually speaks and listens. She knows when to listen and when to speak. This greatly satisfies the domination and control desire of the negotiating party, and makes the other party feel their leadership position. Their activity makes the social occasions full of laughter and laughter, and there will be no silence.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)