As a woman, there are also many commonalities with men, and according to their own personality traits and different understandings, they will present a roughly equal state of survival. Women have too many desires, strong self-esteem, can't afford to let go, are sentimental, have multiple personalities, worry about gains and losses, love and oneself, etc., all of which make it difficult to live easily, and men will also be like this. Not living easily means being tired to some extent.
How should a woman examine whether she is tired or relaxed in life? This reminds me of the mental states of people from different eras. In the difficult period before the reform and opening up, people's material lives were generally lacking, but many people had a good mental state. Talking and laughing, full of longing for the future. This relaxed mindset comes from the small difference in horizontal reference to material life and the strengthening of consciousness towards spiritual life. I think this is an open society, an era centered around economic development, with significant characteristics of materialization and entertainment. There are many factors that affect people's mental state: firstly, due to the survival pressure brought about by materialization, it is easy to experience psychological imbalance under material temptation; The second is influenced by self personality contradictions, which often reflect the impact of different social values on people and the inner conflicts they bring. Thirdly, it is influenced by self-values and outlook on life, which will strengthen self-awareness and achieve self behavior navigation. Fourthly, it is influenced by the conflict between idealization and reality.
By comprehensively analyzing the above factors, it is not difficult to find that in real life, it is those people who will live very tiredly. As a woman, there are also many commonalities with men, and according to their own personality traits and different understandings, they will present a roughly equal state of survival. Women have too many desires, strong self-esteem, can't afford to let go, are sentimental, have multiple personalities, worry about gains and losses, love and oneself, etc., all of which make it difficult to live easily, and men will also be like this. Not living easily means being tired to some extent. But as a woman, there are several types that are destined to live a very tiring life:
A woman who is too restless
Women love to dream, but from another perspective, many women love to dream out of proportion. Perhaps this type of woman will never know what contentment is. Perhaps, if such women are career oriented and maintain this restless personality trait in their careers, they may become strong women, and restlessness will become their driving force for progress. Although they live a bit tired, they are also fulfilling and full of a sense of achievement. But women who often feel uneasy are emotionally uneasy, which makes it difficult for them to settle down and live a good life. Over time, they will inevitably change. Such women find it difficult to have a lasting sense of happiness and often live a tiring life. Women are restless and easily wander between material and spiritual pursuits. When there is no money, if you want to have money, marry a wealthy person and feel that you still need to have a spiritual pursuit. So I wanted to find a confidant again. People say: 'The sky is not high, but the human heart is higher than the sky.'. People who are restless have too many wishes, too high, and it's strange to make themselves not tired. In particular, people who are emotionally restless always find fault in their marriage. They often come to Dim sum to bother themselves and others, and they want to change their way of life from time to time.
A woman who loves to dig corners.
Women love to drill corners and often make themselves nervous. This type of woman does not grasp the direction of things from a macro perspective, but is accustomed to looking at things from a micro perspective and entering subjectively. The biggest characteristic is the habit of making simple things very complex and possessing the ability to outline and go online. For example, in marital life, the husband often socializes outside. Whenever a woman finds a long hair on a man's clothes, she must make it clear to the man and always suspect his infidelity. If a man tries to explain everything and find someone to prove it, she just doesn't believe it. People who love to drill into the corners of an ox, the more they dig in, the more painful they will be squeezed, until they end up with no way out. Why is this necessary? This type of woman lives not only tired, but often sets up imaginary enemies for themselves to challenge themselves and put themselves under nervous tension. This type of person is typical of those who cannot get along with themselves.
Women whose emotions are easily influenced by others
If women are easily influenced by others, they must live an emotional life. When you hear others say you are good, you become complacent, and when you hear others say you are not good, you become disheartened. This type of person, when chatting with others, what do they say about you. So the woman's heart began to block her breath, causing her to lose interest in tea and rice, and sometimes even getting emotionally excited or gritting her teeth in anger. Originally, it was normal for someone to be spoken of later, but because of a word from someone else, it would affect their mindset or change their decisions. This person not only cannot achieve great things, but also has a difficult time living a small life. This type of woman who is easily influenced by others has strong subjectivity, a sensitive mindset, and a tendency to worry about gains and losses. The fourth is weak self-confidence, which is prone to changing opinions due to the opinions or attitudes of others.
A woman who loves to complain about others
Women love to complain about others and others, and these people complain about their lives and even themselves, but they lack the courage and ability to facilitate the transformation of their own destiny. The greatest ability all day long is to set up a pessimistic and disappointed atmosphere for oneself, sighing and sighing, and the fate turns pale, making everyone around her unhappy. This type of person lives tiredly because she actually has many desires, but she is unwilling to fight against fate, lacks courage, and is oppressed by the burden. This kind of person's fate is not good, and they have physical fatigue, but they also have many desires and substantial mental fatigue. If the body accumulates and the heart becomes tired, it's natural to have a good word for 'tired'.
A woman who loves to torment herself
Some women may think that tossing and turning is the meaning of life, and there is a saying that goes, "Trees move to death, people move to life. Some women are accustomed to tossing around with themselves, in terms of emotions, careers, hobbies, and other aspects. Well done, there is really good hope. But if she doesn't succeed in old age, this kind of woman will eventually become a frustrated and miserable person in the midst of turmoil. When their hearts were tired, they would rather lie there and do nothing. This type of woman may have many thoughts during the process of tossing and turning, but they often change. Their desire for success is stronger than anyone else, but they find it difficult to settle down and work in the same direction. So, often their career sustainability is low. Take some examples of women learning English as an example. They are constantly changing their learning methods and learning materials, but as they age, their English proficiency does not truly improve. Therefore, passion alone is not enough.
A woman with excessive self-esteem
Women with strong self-esteem may become neurotic. Firstly, in real life, they are unwilling to socialize, refuse to be helped by others, or even offer sincere advice, because they may feel that others' advice is a sign of disdain for themselves. But this type of person habitually loves to be compared to other women around them. As the saying goes, "People are more angry than others." Therefore, this type of woman's mentality is difficult to balance. This type of woman is fragile and sensitive in mentality, which always makes it difficult for them to face life calmly. The worse the condition of this woman, the more difficult it is to get along with others. The biggest enemy of a woman is actually her own. They are people who love to compete with themselves, so they are very tired and often cannot find the reason for their fatigue.
A compromise woman
This type of woman appears somewhat pitiful, as they are accustomed to cutting their feet to fit their shoes due to their personality or circumstances. In order to seek perfection, we are willing to distort our own psychology and endure humiliation. Not only is it difficult to take into account one's own dignity when doing things, but one also needs to be cautious everywhere, and in the end, it may not be possible to achieve the goal of perfection. For example, in unequal marriages, men have an absolute sense of superiority and can indulge in all kinds of activities such as eating, drinking, whoring, gambling, and smoking. However, in order to maintain their marriage, women not only dare not blame men, but also have to hold their tails between themselves. Such a woman not only lives the most tiring, but also the most pitiful, and at the same time, there is a bit of sadness. When the dignity of being human is lost, it is impossible to expect unconditional efforts to bring happiness. These women may only hope to achieve basic survival, but they are afraid of making independent decisions about their own lives because they have no confidence in their own survival ability and would rather choose a humiliating marriage life.