Naked marriage steps into difficulties. What difficulties will Naked marriage encounter

From sleeping naked to getting married naked, my husband and I knew each other by working outside. Who knew that we suddenly became pregnant last year, so we were anxious to get the birth certificate, so we took the Marriage certificate without doing anything. During this period, my husband's family did not give anything. Now when I think about myself, I was really brainwashed and childishly thought that only two people would be happy. Confession: Glass Candy heard her mother-in-law telling her again tonight: "My son still has the ability to marry a wife without spending a penny. You see, my daughter-in-law can't even drive away. I couldn't help it anymore and went out to have a fierce argument with her. Who knew she would scold me: Am I wrong? It's you who are cheap and want to follow my son to death. Which woman like you, don't just run into a man's house without anything, you don't want to be ashamed. I couldn't help it anymore and slapped her when I went up. Pack up and run away from home. NND, I can't take it anymore. When I gave birth to a child, my mother-in-law was not good to me, and now it's even worse. Whenever I argue, I use this as a pretext, as if I can't get married and insist on her son. My husband has also mentioned her many times, but she still looks the same. I also had a lot of arguments with my husband over this matter. Now I feel a headache when I think of my mother-in-law, and I don't want to go back to that house anymore. Since the evening, my husband has called me many times, but I haven't answered any of them. I don't want to see him, let alone his family. Looking at my son who is sleeping soundly, I hesitated again. I really don't want him to lose his father so early, let alone my husband treating me well. I don't want to divorce him either. But I really don't know how to face his family, let alone how long my love for him can last in this situation. I also want to live separately from them, but conditions do not allow. My husband is the only son who wants to provide them with retirement. We just bought a house last year and have to repay the loan every month. His parents saw us buy a house and immediately sold their old house to live with us, without giving us a penny. Do you want me to hand over the painstakingly arranged home to them? I'm not willing to. I really don't know what she can do with her mother-in-law's personality when they need to move out$ {FDpageBreak} Expert response: "I can't help it anymore. I slapped her when I went up." - Oh no, your slap broke and the nature changed. If you slap her with someone's evidence, your husband will definitely believe it. Moreover, if your daughter-in-law slaps her mother-in-law, you're wrong everywhere. Since the evening, my husband has called me many times, but I haven't answered any of them. I don't want to see him, I want to see his family more. Look at my sleeping son, I hesitated again. Do you think your husband is calling to apologize and coax you home? You're wrong! Your slap will make you pay a painful price, and you need to be prepared for divorce. My son still has the ability to marry a daughter-in-law without spending a penny. You see, my daughter-in-law can't even drive her away yet. "- This sentence conveys at least five messages: 1. Your mother-in-law looks down on you and has never accepted you; 2. Your mother-in-law and you have been at odds for more than a day or two; 3. Your mother-in-law believes that you are not worthy of her son and has been urging him to divorce; 4. Your husband is a filial son and has never broken her heart to help you; 5. Your husband is not acting and lacks the ability to mediate conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. "My husband and I met while working outside. Who knew that we were pregnant suddenly last year, so we were anxious to get the birth certificate, so we took the Marriage certificate without doing anything" - you should take the initiative to get the Marriage certificate. Your husband is weak in character, and you didn't ask for anything. If he doesn't marry you, he will make you feel that he is playing with you. According to your temper, you will certainly not let him go. So he went to get a certificate from you, and he messed up his parents' plans by doing so. Perhaps his family had already arranged a marriage for him, and his sudden marriage made it difficult for his parents. In order to give others an explanation, your mother-in-law can only blame you and say that you are cheap - "You are cheap yourself, you must follow my son to death. Which woman like you, don't just run to a man's house, And 'I can't even drive away'. Since you say 'your husband is the only son who wants to provide them with retirement', it means that if you are at odds with your mother-in-law, he can only choose between two. When you say 'my mother-in-law was not good to me when giving birth, and now it's even worse', it means that your mother-in-law doesn't dislike what you do, but rather dislikes you as a person. She doesn't like you as a person, and whatever you do, she will dislike you. She fundamentally denies you. Otherwise, she has no reason to be unkind to you when you gave birth, and even if you gave her a grandson, it didn't make her any better, but rather worse. She spared no effort to drive you away, perhaps it was the family she was in love with that had spoken up. As long as your husband divorced, their daughter would still marry, and they didn't think he was a second marriage. His parents saw us buy a house and immediately sold their old house to live with us. "- His parents are determined to live with their son, and if you make them unhappy, they will definitely not tolerate you. Your mother-in-law has been brainwashing your husband, but he has no action because he really can't find a reason to divorce you. Alright now, if you slap your mother-in-law, it's like giving someone a handle. If your husband doesn't divorce you, she will go online and make him feel unfilial and extremely uneasy. In order to end the pain as soon as possible, he will propose to divorce you. If you go too far in words and actions, he will not hesitate to take your mother-in-law's side, and this marriage will be divorced. There are at least three reasons why your marriage is like this: 1. You really shouldn't get married naked. If you don't get married naked, your husband may not marry you anymore, and you can escape this disaster; 2. After understanding the principle that 'marriage is not just about two people being happy', you failed to establish a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which directly led to your marriage reaching a dead end; 3. You also have some problems yourself, such as having a bad temper, being impulsive, thinking things too simply, and not being able to empathize, and so on. If you insist on not getting divorced, you will have to endure all the insults from your mother-in-law and cling to your husband, not allowing other women to take advantage of it. He is a weak person. Once a woman takes care of him like you and treats him well, he will quickly adapt. Divorcing you will not cause much pain, and weak men are the most ruthless. This is also a lesson you need to learn.